How To Free Our Minds with Cult Deprogramming Expert Dr. Steven Hassan

May 5, 2022

How would you know if you were in a cult?

If not a cult, then at least under undue influence?

The truth is: we're all under some form of undue influence. The question is: to what degree and to what extent we’re aware of this influence — which is exacerbated by social media. In an era of likes, followers, and echo chambers, how can we become aware of undue influence and gain sovereignty over our minds?

Our guest this week is Dr. Steven Hassan, an expert on undue influence, brainwashing, and unethical hypnosis. He’s the founder of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center — a coaching, consulting, and training organization dedicated to helping people freely consider how they want to live their lives. Dr. Hassan was himself a member of a cult: the Unification Church (also known as the Moonies), which was developed in Korea in the 1950's. Since leaving the Moonies, Dr. Hassan has helped thousands of individuals and families recover from undue influence.

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Major Takeaways

Dr. Hassan believes that . Some influence is healthy and promotes our ability to grow. Other influence can instill dependency and indoctrinate us to harm ourselves and others.

Dr. Hassan's includes 4 components of authoritarian control — the more someone has influence over behavior, information, thought, and emotion, the more they have authoritarian control.

There are extraordinary parallels between cults techniques and social media features. For example: "love bombing" and affirmation after people join, ex-communicating outside relationships through physical and digital echo chambers, and the weaponization of FOMO.

Dr. Steven Hassan's Strategic Interactive Approach helps people free themselves of undue influence through a 4-step process of reality-testing:
~Detach from the constant reinforcing influences, e.g. take a tech sabbatical
~Learn about the BITE model of authoritarian control — to what extent are your behaviors, information, thoughts, and emotions being influenced?
~Deliberately seek out "formers" — why did they leave the group?
~Think back to why you joined the group. What did you think you were getting into, and does that differ from your experience?

In the words of Dr. Hassan, "the cure to blind faith is perspective." In that spirit, he offers 3 questions we can ask ourselves:
~How would I know if I was wrong?
~Do I believe my mind is un-malleable?
~Am I afraid of making a change in my life?

‍Formers are incredibly powerful, because they can be an off-ramp for people under extreme undue influence. Dr. Hassan uses the hashtag to de-stigmatize cult participation and show that there's life after cults. Our Executive Producer Stephanie Lepp produced a podcast called that told the stories of formers — and how they underwent transformative change.

Recommended Media

The website for Dr. Hassan’s Freedom of Mind Resource Center, which includes resources such as his , of authoritarian control, and for alleviating people of undue influence

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Dr. Hassan’s podcast exploring how mind-control works, and how to protect yourself from its grips

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A podcast that told the stories of people who’ve transcended extremism, expanded their worldviews, and made other kinds of transformative change. Start with episode featuring a former paid climate skeptic, or featuring the former protégé of Fox News chairman Roger Ailes

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